{"id":1879,"date":"2013-07-19T15:17:36","date_gmt":"2013-07-19T13:17:36","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/euroalter.local\/news\/start-with-the-soul-not-with-the-handbag\/"},"modified":"2020-03-03T12:20:08","modified_gmt":"2020-03-03T11:20:08","slug":"start-with-the-soul-not-with-the-handbag","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/euroalter.com\/it\/start-with-the-soul-not-with-the-handbag\/","title":{"rendered":"START WITH THE SOUL NOT WITH THE HANDBAG"},"content":{"rendered":"<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">As part of our project on\u00a0<a href=\"http:\/\/bit.ly\/makingaliving\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">making a living<\/a>, we&#8217;re looking at how helpful different forms of support are to help young people cope with precarity. In the <a href=\"http:\/\/bit.ly\/11FJOCf\">last post<\/a>, we looked at the situation people are faced with. Here we look at their attitudes towards the state.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\"><strong style=\"text-align: justify;\">Start with the soul not with the handbag<\/strong><span style=\"text-align: justify;\">\u00a0<\/span><br style=\"text-align: justify;\" \/> <br style=\"text-align: justify;\" \/> <span style=\"text-align: justify;\">Weed to shift mindsets, we need to look at what people themselves can bring to the table, not just as consumers but as citizens, as highlighted by @hilarycottam in <a href=\"http:\/\/relationalwelfare.com\/\">Relational Welfare<\/a>. We need to start with people not with savings, providing the stimulus that revitalises their wellbeing, not just their spending power.\u00a0<\/span><br style=\"text-align: justify;\" \/> <br style=\"text-align: justify;\" \/> <span style=\"text-align: justify;\">We also need to start changing the arguments. It\u2019s not about who is deserving of help or not. It\u2019s neither only about defining who is poor or not. It\u2019s about understanding how that poverty is experienced, how people\u2019s social and cultural relationships define what they see as their material needs and what they see as socially acceptable \u2013 \u201chard working families\u201d \u2013 or not \u2013 \u201cbenefit scroungers\u201d.\u00a0<\/span><br style=\"text-align: justify;\" \/> <br style=\"text-align: justify;\" \/> <span style=\"text-align: justify;\">Why do you think so many people want to define themselves as anything other than \u201cworking class\u201d? People don\u2019t want to feel either deserving of fear or pity. Which is why many try and hide away from the helping hand of the state. Which is they become labelled as \u201chard to reach\u201d or \u201cseldom heard\u201d.\u00a0<\/span><span style=\"text-align: justify;\">Which is why even some of the best services like children&#8217;s centres don\u2019t reach them as well as they could.<\/span><br style=\"text-align: justify;\" \/><br \/>\n<strong style=\"text-align: justify;\">Respect, dignity and hope \u2013 nurturing a sense of collective belonging<\/strong><span style=\"text-align: justify;\">\u00a0<\/span><br style=\"text-align: justify;\" \/> <br style=\"text-align: justify;\" \/> <span style=\"text-align: justify;\">Recognition and respect are just as important as redistribution.\u00a0<\/span><strong style=\"text-align: justify;\">A school which nurtures relationship building is just as valuable as one which nurtures exam success, depending on whether we want to create good little consumers or good citizens<\/strong><span style=\"text-align: justify;\">. Recognition that services can be improved by the mutual interests of staff and users working together.\u00a0<\/span><span style=\"text-align: justify;\">Providing public services that treat people with dignity, values their contributions and develops a sense of collective belonging.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<div style=\"text-align: justify;\"><iframe loading=\"lazy\" src=\"http:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/T3xNwJS5yGw\" height=\"315\" width=\"500\" allowfullscreen=\"\" frameborder=\"0\"><\/iframe><\/div>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\"><br style=\"text-align: justify;\" \/> <span style=\"text-align: justify;\">Although many people find it hard to imagine the possibility of escaping from poverty and social exclusion, that doesn\u2019t mean they don\u2019t hope, as is shown in the testimonies from @comms_links. When Obama talks about \u201cbeing the change we can believe in\u201d, it internalises this paradox very well. Their hopes nevertheless constantly battle against the unpredictability of their lives and the fear it generates. This is why involving users in co-producing public services doesn\u2019t only offer greater hope, it allows people to use this hope and energy to work with staff to develop the services that matter to them.\u00a0<\/span><br style=\"text-align: justify;\" \/><br \/>\n<strong style=\"text-align: justify;\">From consumerist havens to safe spaces \u2013 from the customer to the carer<\/strong><span style=\"text-align: justify;\">\u00a0<\/span><br style=\"text-align: justify;\" \/> <br style=\"text-align: justify;\" \/> <span style=\"text-align: justify;\">People often look back to a golden age where there was a sense of neighbourliness and people took pride in where they lived. But for some people, when they look at where they live, it\u2019s little wonder that they escape to the consumerist haven of the Westfield shopping mall or the virtual meritocracy of the X Factor.\u00a0<\/span><strong style=\"text-align: justify;\">We escape the reality of our neighbourhoods and we escape who we know. We feel we\u2019ve lost our sense of belonging and our sense of trust.\u00a0<\/strong><span style=\"text-align: justify;\">We may feel less trustworthy of our neighbours, less attached to our extended or even immediate families, and yet friendship and trust are even more critical in our increasingly atomised society. We need to create safe spaces for people to talk and look out for one another through better access to mutual support networks and cheaper relationship counselling. Supporting caring, not penalising it.\u00a0<\/span><br style=\"text-align: justify;\" \/><br \/>\n<strong style=\"text-align: justify;\">Outsourced relationships and hidden assets<\/strong><span style=\"text-align: justify;\">\u00a0<\/span><br style=\"text-align: justify;\" \/> <br style=\"text-align: justify;\" \/> <span style=\"text-align: justify;\">Through how the the state defines its \u201cservices\u201d, public servants can only engage in specific moments in people\u2019s lives which ignore the complexities of the rest of their daily life. This creates assumptions by the \u201cstate\u201d which are reinforced by people themselves. Indeed, for many people there is an antagonistic relationship with the state. They feel assessed and judged from all corners \u2013 from their neighbours, the media and the state itself. This fuels a vicious circle of avoiding the state to avoid accusations made by others, about whom they make accusations themselves, that they are somehow \u201ccheating the system\u201d.<\/span><strong style=\"text-align: justify;\">\u00a0It\u2019s not they feel ungrateful, but they feel that the institutions don\u2019t understand the realities they live in.<\/strong><span style=\"text-align: justify;\">\u00a0<\/span><br style=\"text-align: justify;\" \/> <br style=\"text-align: justify;\" \/> <span style=\"text-align: justify;\">For public servants too, that antagonistic relationship exists, they feel they can\u2019t be trusted to serve the public efficiently. The compulsion to performance manage, to privatise and to personalise drives them even further away from being able to understand the people they serve.\u00a0<\/span><br style=\"text-align: justify;\" \/> <br style=\"text-align: justify;\" \/> <span style=\"text-align: justify;\">We need to re-invest in the emotional and social resources for staff and service users to make the \u201ctough choices\u201d on issues like community cohesion, chronic conditions or climate change. They can work out the tensions between different people\u2019s needs and their capacity to participate. Only then can the state show its citizens it is not only \u201con their side\u201d but working with them \u201con the same side\u201d.\u00a0<\/span><br style=\"text-align: justify;\" \/> <br style=\"text-align: justify;\" \/> <span style=\"text-align: justify;\">We need to unlock these \u201chidden assets\u201d of reciprocity and trust and refashion social capital that values these assets as much as more recognised forms of engagement. Of course we need to get people into work. But that means nothing to the communities we serve if we don\u2019t help people help themselves by supporting each other, rewarding care rather than penalising it.<\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\"><a style=\"font-family: 'Lucida Grande', 'Lucida Sans Unicode', 'Lucida Sans', Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;\" href=\"http:\/\/bit.ly\/138P4QK\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\"><img decoding=\"async\" style=\"border: 0px; margin: 0px; padding: 0px; vertical-align: middle; width: 232px; height: 41px;\" alt=\"\" src=\"https:\/\/euroalter.com\/images\/article_uploads\/Imagine%20Day%20in%20the%20Life.jpg\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<div style=\"text-align: justify;\"><a style=\"font-family: 'Lucida Grande', 'Lucida Sans Unicode', 'Lucida Sans', Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;\" href=\"http:\/\/bit.ly\/12rknuz\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\"><img decoding=\"async\" style=\"border: 0px; margin: 0px; padding: 0px; vertical-align: middle; width: 232px; height: 41px;\" alt=\"\" src=\"https:\/\/euroalter.com\/images\/article_uploads\/Share%20your%20Story.jpg\" \/><\/a><br style=\"font-family: 'Lucida Grande', 'Lucida Sans Unicode', 'Lucida Sans', Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;\" \/> <a style=\"font-family: 'Lucida Grande', 'Lucida Sans Unicode', 'Lucida Sans', Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;\" href=\"http:\/\/slidesha.re\/UGuzG7\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\"><img decoding=\"async\" style=\"border: 0px; margin: 0px; padding: 0px; vertical-align: middle; width: 232px; height: 42px;\" alt=\"\" src=\"https:\/\/euroalter.com\/images\/article_uploads\/Use%20Creative%20Methods.jpg\" \/><\/a><br style=\"font-family: 'Lucida Grande', 'Lucida Sans Unicode', 'Lucida Sans', Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;\" \/> <a style=\"font-family: 'Lucida Grande', 'Lucida Sans Unicode', 'Lucida Sans', Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;\" href=\"http:\/\/bit.ly\/11nXQrc\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\"><img decoding=\"async\" style=\"border: 0px; margin: 0px; padding: 0px; vertical-align: middle; width: 232px; height: 42px;\" alt=\"\" src=\"https:\/\/euroalter.com\/images\/article_uploads\/Observe.jpg\" \/><\/a><\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>As part of our project on\u00a0making a living, we&#8217;re looking at how helpful different forms of support are to help young people cope with precarity.&hellip;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":8,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_acf_changed":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[22],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-1879","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-transnational-activism"],"acf":[],"yoast_head":"<!-- This site is optimized with the Yoast SEO plugin v24.6 - 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